I grew up in a big house in the little woods during the heyday of Vision Forum’s stay-at-home daughter movement, promoting patriarchialism, long denim skirts, and a narrow view of God via my little blog. The website Raising Homemakers picked up my work around the time I started questioning my future as a rural homemaker-in-training with zero prospects beyond folding laundry for eight siblings and learning how to crochet for the fourth time.
When I was sixteen, I came out with my concerns about stay-at-home daughters, Vision Forum, and conservative Christian mores in general (like this and this). This admission threw me into spiritual turmoil, but it is the one and only time I am confident I had an experience with God.
A few years later, I attended Hillsdale College, graduating summa cum laude with a B.A. in Christian studies. Here I pursued the good, the true, and the beautiful; met the most unique and genuine people; and changed into a more mature and less close-minded woman able to embrace mystery and difference without her world falling apart. In my senior thesis, “Saved Through Childbirth: How Women Participate in the Life of a Male Redeemer,” I wrestled with questions pertaining to femininity and spirituality in the early church.
During college, I met Erich, a Catholic, ISTP chemistry major — my opposite in every respect (I was a Reformed Baptist ENFJ). We fell in love, which required lots of stretching, mind-changing, and patience, and married the day after our graduation on May 15, 2016.
As an undergrad, I began freelancing for my college’s website and for Off the Page. Because writing doesn’t pay the bills and I love little kids, I work as a kindergarten teacher at an inner city Christian school. Please drop me a line and tell me a little bit about yourself, too!